A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to Work Today — 66 Comments

  1. Natalie, that’s terrible news about the contract, but you’re a writer, and a damn good one at that, so I’m sure there will be many literary opportunities on the horizon for you.

    Way to kick depression’s ass – especially sans bra, AND with a cat on your lap!

    P.S. I haven’t even read Ulysses once.
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    • Thank you for the encouragement, Karen. And the only way to kick depression is to not wear a bra.
      And you aren’t missing much, on the Ulysses front. It’s like climbing Everest: not everyone needs to do it.

  2. it’s so hard not beating yourself up for things that really have nothing to do with your competence but with everyone else’s stupidity – i just threw the stupidity part in because i like to blame things on other people’s stupidity. 😉 it’s tough moving past things that are beyond your control, but there will be bigger and better. and please get rid of those boots. i don’t think you should have to suffer. some things should just fit.
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    • I’m going to have to start using that more frequently, the stupidity line.
      Maybe the boots should just fit, but I’m kind of stubborn…an e-purchase, so I didn’t realize until I got them home.

  3. Yay!! Good for you kicking depression’s ass…and in kick ass depression pants, no less. 🙂

    I’m going to be okay. What a good mantra. I’m going to have to borrow that from you. I’m glad you truly are okay, and that you’re enjoying living the dream!
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  4. Way to pick yourself up after a setback! It’s pretty powerful to remind ourselves that we are going to be okay. And it helps to know we have our “failure” accoutrements to turn to. But, then the next day, we can put on those perfect cognac combat boots (black motorcycle boots for me) and get on with it!
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  5. I haven’t read Ulysses. I have read Plato’s Republic. Does that count for anything? It isn’t exactly literature, but it’s old.

    Sorry about the contract. I love the owl pants. Sweet kitty. I’m sure you will be okay 🙂 [My husband used to be self-employed from contract to contract and we lived through this many times. It was always okay.]
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  6. Sometimes you get to fight through the depression, kick it’s butt, and get up swinging, ready for the next thing. I applaud your ‘gumption’, as they used to call it. And yes, you are going to be okay!

  7. Setbacks and layoffs are so hard but I think it’s wonderful that you are feeling pretty good about it. And you are an excellent writer, and you will get other work. You will be okay. Your kitty is awesome for being your lap cat all day. I haven’t read Ulysses. And probably never will. I’m okay with you winning that.
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  8. Of course there will be other contract! And I’m so proud of you for kicking depression’s ass while wearing these damn cute pants. Cats have a way of knowing when we need their comfort most. I had a cat who lived to be 19. I had his since I was 9. I was his least favourite member of the family, since I dressed him in my hair scrunchies among other things (other things being I was kid. Which cats don’t usually appreciate). One night, when I was still living in Israel, our prime minister was assassinated and I was having one of these epic cries. My cat for the first time ever came and sat in my lap. I love cats. And I love you, cat lady, and I can’t even say “you’re going to be OK” because you already are. xo
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  9. I got 50 pages into Ulysses and realized I needed a Jedi mind to understand what was going on. Oh well, I understand Dubliners, and that’s enough Joyce for me (Portrait was okay…). I like your new attitude towards writing and losing a contract. Screw the man, we are what we are, and nobody else can control our self image.
    Chris plumb recently posted…Saviors, We Don’t Need No Stinking SaviorsMy Profile

    • A Jedi mind, or a really good professor to guide you along…
      And Dubliners? Yeah, that’s enough Joyce. When someone tells me they’ve read and understood Finnegan’s Wake, they will be just mere steps below God in my mind.
      And “Damn the Man” is one of my favorite sayings.

  10. Way to go with the positive attitude! I totally feel you about losing a contract. I had a sweet writing job as an in-house writer, then got downsized to contract writer… Then they made more cutbacks and let me go. I blamed myself for about a year.
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  11. Well, it’s a good thing you don’t write naked, or you wouldn’t have had anything to write about today. Oh wait, there is the cat… nice to see her. Oh yeah, and the job thing… something else will appear, maybe even better. Nice too, how you made me feel like I suck… but I saw the movie, so I didn’t waste all that time reading.

    The depression pants are comfy looking, and cute… but that Afghan, good Lord who knitted that??? Oh no! You probably did, and now you are running to put your depression pants on. Would it help if I said you looked really cute in your pre washed hair no makeup selfie?

    p.s. you are missing the word ‘a’ somewhere.
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  12. Sorry to hear about the contract, but I’m sure you’ll get more work soon. I’m envious of your depression pants. I love owls…Thinking about it a friend gave me a pair of owl pyjamas (pink) for Xmas…Maybe…

  13. Telling yourself you’re going to be OK is huge! It’s a gift to yourself and a gift to everyone around you. And it also disables the situation from having any power over you. I’m sorry you lost the contract. But I’m so glad you found some peace with it. And I want a pair of those boots too!
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  14. I’m sorry about the contract. But you will be okay!

    I write as well. I’m usually dressed, as I have to take my kids to school and such, but when I get home I put on my sweatpants so I’m comfortable.

    And my cat likes to sit on me a lot too. Or walk across my laptop so some people have received some odd blog notes before.
    Amber recently posted…Sometimes You Have To Let GoMy Profile

  15. Sorry to see you lost that contract, but glad you came through it realising you’d be okay.
    I have read a few of Joyce’s books, but not Ulysses. Well done you!
    I also love to wear cats when writing! They keep you warm.

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