The Invisible Woman — 33 Comments

  1. Love the line, ‘ I’d rather be solid than invisible.’ This is something I need to work on. I was always bigger than everybody and every other woman around me seemed so tiny and more desirable. Then I met an awesome friend who was even taller and bigger boned than me, and she owned it. I look to her now as inspiration for me owning who I am. Great post! Thanks for the inspiration!
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  2. Hello, stranger! Love the new look and ADORE this piece. From one tall, muscular girl to another – I see you. I hear you.

    Favorite line: “I take up space. I am weighty, even substantive. My ideas and my body take up space, muscular and fleshy. ”

    And thank goodness for that. You’re amazing.
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    • Oh man, count yourself lucky. Where I come from, women are ridiculed for voicing their opinions. They are expected to be skinny and silent, shrinking violets – so “invisible” is a bit of a hyperbole.

  3. I love the commentary going on here. I’ve lived both my personal and professional lives with strong women as colleagues and partners. It’s been great!

    And to those who are devastated because they no longer turn heads when they walk into a bar, I say, there’s a lot more to life than that.

    But maybe all that’s because I’m, Canadian, eh?

    Blessings and Bear hugs!
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  4. I love the subject you chose, love the accompanying images which so perfectly suit it and I love that you’re constantly working on improving your relationship with yourself. No, I admire that. I’ve been often thinking about invisibility too, as a recently acquired trait that really bothers me. This was really thought provoking and stirred some unresolved emotions in me. I might write something about invisibility myself.
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