Happy Birthday to the Place that Saved My Writing — 50 Comments

  1. I understand this completely! I stumbled upon Yeah Write too and thought, OK, it’s a popularity contest. If there is any contest at all, it is a contest with yourself; to improve the quality of writing week after week and to learn from those who can do teach you. Many times, it is the reason I keep on writing.
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  2. I have been LOVING these birthday posts from you guys. It’s so cool to see how you joined the community and what your experience has been from the beginning. I have yet to earn any badge besides a cute little penguin but I’m learning so much in the process and meeting some amazing writers.

    P.S. I still say you’re gifted. 🙂
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  3. “Writing is a continual exercise in flogging your ego, then spoon-feeding it yams, and then letting someone else beat it with a sock full of nickels.” Hahahaha!

    Thanks for sharing your writing history. It’s always helpful to read about the creative journeys of other writers – especially the ones I respect.

    I’m so glad you’re here!
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    • Isn’t it just like that, though? 😉

      And I love reading about other people’s yeah write journeys, as well as how they came to be writers. It’s always fascinating, because no one ever chooses to be a writer because “mom and dad really pressured me.”

  4. I loved this – I can relate to parts of it (except placing on the Yeah Write grid 🙂 ) I’ve lost myself in writing before, writing for others, and then finding my way back. And I’m with you that winning isn’t the purpose of writing. You can’t lose with the support of a great community.
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    • So glad you were able to find encouragement here. We have all been new and struggling at one time, but those of us still around have persevered through those shaky times. Keep it up! You’ll find your voice.

  5. I think the visual of spoon-feeding my ego, then letting someone beat it with a sock full of nickels is permanently etched into my mind! But this is one of the things I love about your writing – you can make me laugh out loud and break my heart in the same post.

    I’m so happy to have met you and the rest of this awesome bunch of editors!
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  6. I’ve never heard of yeah write before, but after reading your post I will have to check it out.
    I was very interested in your experience of being told as a child that you were gifted. I had a similar experience, as did one of my daughters. With me, it was art I was supposedly gifted at, with my daughter it was swimming. She and were just discussing the swimming today, and she felt that it created too much pressure for her when people praised her so young. She couldn’t live up to it. I think I felt similarly – I grew up in a very small community and moving away in my teens, I discovered that there were many others as good at art as I was, or better. It was confusing and for me, demoralising. I’d assumed my path in life was clear and suddenly I had no clue what to do. It took me years to realise that I could choose a new path.
    I’m glad you found a way past your block, and here’s to lots more success for you!
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  7. I’m so glad that I’ve stumbled upon Yeah Write in time for its birthday celebration. Getting to know the editors through their personal stories this week has been a blessing. Thaks so much for sharing.

    God bless you,
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  8. I’ve enjoyed the few Yeah Write competitions I’ve joined. I do feel, slightly, like an outcast each time I join; both because I’m so uninvolved previously, and because I’m a guy. Yes, I said it. There is a selective and insular quality in blogging (and blogging groups especially) that finds camaraderie with like-minded people. And women dominate blogging, so a guy is always going to be an outcast.

    I’m sorry, your post is quite lovely. I didn’t mean to come here and vent. I like Yeah Write. I just feel…sometimes…nevermind. You have grown. I still love your writing and all the variations in your voice. And I completely agree about the academia vs. authentic voice, and I’m glad I no longer know how to write term papers.
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    • Eh, I get that, Chris. The weeks we have more men on the grid are great for the diversity, but sometimes it just doesn’t happen, so I can see how you’d feel left out. Participants ebb and flow. The speakeasy (fiction) usually has more men, though, but it’s hard to write fiction when that’s not what your readers are used to; at least, that’s what I’ve discovered.
      And venting always welcome from you. This is a safe space.

    • Oh good. You are definitely doing the right thing by cultivating perseverance in children, rather than natural ability. I am fortunate in that I have a fair amount of natural perseverance, but it took years to properly apply it.

  9. yeah Write is an amazing community, I totally agree. I’ve not written for them in ages. I got out of the habit I guess, but (when I get the book pubbed and have time for such things again) I’ll be back fer sher. Love hearing your journey.
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