House Hunting
“What a great neighborhood!” I said as we walked up the street to the open house. “Fifth doesn’t go all the way through, so I bet it’s really quiet.”
“Yeah,” Mike replied. “Look at those apartments, though,” he said, pointing to a cluster of buildings across the street.
“But they’re not ugly, like the ones in front of that duplex we looked at last month,” I pointed out.
“No, they’re not bad.”
We walked in, and it hit me right away.
“This is perfect,” I breathed.
Open, airy and bright, it was more spacious than other bungalows typically found in the neighborhood, with three bedrooms, two full baths and a bright sunroom.
Mike chatted with the realtor while I half paid attention and half examined the kitchen. It had been upgraded in the recent past and sported two (two!) ovens. I imagined Thanksgivings here, with a turkey in one oven, green beans the other, my mom stirring gravy over the stove while I beat mashed potatoes with the hand mixer…
“Hon?” Mike said, jarring me out of my fantasy. “Let’s go see the rest of the house.”
It had flow, with no weird attached “half-closets” or impractical cabinetry. Sure, the laundry room shared part of the sunroom, cordoned off with floor length curtains, but even I knew that no house in our price range would be perfect. Hardwood floors, vaulted ceiling; this house came pretty darn close.
We walked from room to room, describing how we would use each space.
“This would be perfect for a shared office.”
“Yeah, it has great light.”
“Oh, look – linen closets! We could finally get rid of that nasty dresser!”
“Here would make a great spare bedroom for guests, then it could become the kids’ room at some point.”
The master bedroom had French doors leading to the patio, and we stepped out onto the deck. I sucked in my breath.
“A jacuzzi!”
“Jacuzzis are a lot of work.”
“Yeah, but we’d have a jacuzzi.”
Someone had obviously cared for the large yard, though it boasted a few oddities, like the miniature dog ramps up to the deck and a tiny stone pagoda, complete with tiny bridge, in the middle of a rock garden. The rock garden was so marvelously finished that it inspired me to get my own back home. You can do it easily too, if you were to book your lawn mowing online and hired them for the garden’s maintenance. I saw dark-haired children who had my husband’s eyes bobbing along the neatly trimmed grass, clutching dolls and shovels in their chubby toddler hands.
When we walked back through the house, Mike grabbed the realtor’s card on the way out.
“Wow, I really like it,” I confessed.
“They’re asking too much,” Mike commented. Yeah, I knew they were asking too much. Still…
“But do you think we’ll be able to find anything better?” I asked. “This is my favorite of all the houses we’ve seen so far.”
“Really?” he mused, opening the car doors and climbing in. “Well, I know we’ll find the right one for us. If we could find something for less, and in a better neighborhood….”
“Well, yeah,” I said. “What if we don’t find something though? I really liked that house.”
“I know, hon, but you can’t get attached. We’ll probably look at dozens more houses before we find the right one.”
“Not get attached?” I sighed. I decided not to tell him about the children in the yard.
Joining the writers over at Yeah Write. You should come, too…
42 Comments
Enchanted Seashells, Confessions of a Tugboat Captain's Wife
You had me at miniature dog ramps. My hubs built one for our old Victor when he was having trouble getting up and down. Any house where someone loved animals is a good house!
Enchanted Seashells, Confessions of a Tugboat Captain’s Wife recently posted…Attachment Parenting: Are YOU Attached or Detached?
Natalie the Singingfool
Haha, I know? Just shows another level of care.
Roshni
ooh! It looks amazing! I do hope you get it!
Roshni recently posted…How to keep your child from using swear words – learn from the master, Big A!
Natalie the Singingfool
Thank you! It’s not going to happen, but hey, at least I know it’s possible, right?
Jester Queen
Scott and I knew we were hooked on our first house when we started referring to it as “the house” before we’d even made an offer.
Jester Queen recently posted…Even the gulls
Natalie the Singingfool
Yeah, Mike and I will eventually be on the same page – when it’s the right one. 🙂
icescreammama
that house looks so charming. i love it. when you know you know, right? lovely.
icescreammama recently posted…Why I’ll Never Home School. #Teachersrock
Natalie the Singingfool
That isn’t the house, but it’s the same type of craftsman house. If it were the house in the picture, I’d have bought it without even asking. 🙂
Mamarific
Well, if you’re envisioning children in the yard, I’d say that’s a strong sign! If it is meant to be, I’m sure he will come around. I absolutely love that cute house!
Natalie the Singingfool
Yes, a step closer in the right direction…
Pam
It’s ADORBS! Keep us posted. And PS the whole point is to find one that you get attached to. Why do men not understand this!?
Natalie the Singingfool
I know, right? I don’t know how *not* to get attached.
Tracy @ Lifes Back Roads
It looks so charming – I hope it works out for you!
Tracy @ Lifes Back Roads recently posted…a rough beginning
Natalie the Singingfool
Thank you! 🙂
Larks (@LarksNotesThis)
Wow! That looks *amazing*! The whole time I was reading your post I was internally screaming “Take the house! TAKE THE HOUSE!!!!!”
Larks (@LarksNotesThis) recently posted…Squirrel pancake.
Natalie the Singingfool
Haha, it seemed so PERFECT! Let’s just hope there’s a MORE PERFECT one out there. 🙂
Brian Sorrell
As I read this I thought: she could be describing my house! (And I’m currently homesick as we’re not living in our house (or country for that matter.))
Then I saw the picture. Oh my. That is lovely. We own a very similar 1912 Craftsman Bungalow in the Inland Empire of California. It is dreamy. Surely this house is just as dreamy. You need to buy it, love it, and never let it go.
Brian Sorrell recently posted…The View From Windsor Reserve
Natalie the Singingfool
Aw, I’m sorry you’re feeling homesick! I love the craftsman houses – our neighborhood is filled with them. The picture isn’t the exact one, but gives a general idea…
Daniel Nest
I’m sure you’ll find the right place for you soon, wherever it ends up being!
Daniel Nest recently posted…Here, hold my baby
Natalie the Singingfool
Let’s hope so! I’m not sure how much more of this I can take, lol.
Dana
House hunting can be exhausting – I hope you get it!
Dana recently posted…That old lady is going to be me one day
Natalie the Singingfool
It is – it’s emotionally draining.
christina
argh. yeah. house hunting blows chunks.
christina recently posted…Joyville { – Fiction – }
Natalie the Singingfool
Yep. Bottom line, there.
Kristin
This is where you live now, isn’t it? 🙂
Kristin recently posted…Integrity Without Dignity
Natalie the Singingfool
LOL, I wish! I only hope there’s an even BETTER one on the horizon! 😉
Mod Mom Beyond IndieDom
I need those miniature dog ramps for my pugs! 😉 Looking at houses…how can you not get attached, right? You picture yourself and your things in every room, you mentally decorate and paint the walls, imagining dinner parties, holidays and lazy Sunday afternoons in the garden. I hope you find the house that’s just right for both of you that you can call home.
Mod Mom Beyond IndieDom recently posted…Crack Is Whack
Natalie the Singingfool
I know! It’s an emotional experience – how do you not get attached??
Cutter
Having recently gone through a house search, I could totally relate to this. You don’t want to get attached to any particular house you see, but sometimes, you can’t help it.
Cutter recently posted…Brevity
Natalie the Singingfool
EXACTLY.
Katie
Does it sing to you? If so, it’s yours (plus the kids in the yard)
Natalie the Singingfool
It did. I’m hoping this just means there’s a better one for us.
Samantha Brinn Merel
Ugh, house hunting. When we were looking last spring I went through this exact same thing at least ten times before we finally found the one that was right for us. I couldn’t figure out how we would ever settle on the right one until we did. Sometimes you just know.
Samantha Brinn Merel recently posted…Morning Switch Up
Natalie the Singingfool
Yes. It’s certainly draining, huh?
Emma @ Your Doctor's Wife
House hunting is incredibly exhausting and emotional. I’m sure you’ll end up in a home that’s perfect for you!
Emma @ Your Doctor’s Wife recently posted…Scrubs on the Ground
Natalie the Singingfool
I’m sure, too. 🙂
Ericamos
Oh man, this is totally how I’m going to be once Greg and I start house hunting. He better just take me to one. Assuming you’re looking locally, it just sucks, ’cause all the nice ones like that are in the yuckiest neighborhoods. My brother is currently looking to buy, and being a mechanical and space engineer, he has a substantially larger budget than I will ever have, yet *he’s* having trouble finding a nice house in a nice neighborhood. Being an adult sucks. I want the nice things in a nice package, and I want them now! 😉
Ericamos recently posted…What’s In A Name?
Natalie the Singingfool
IT’S SO HARD, Erica! All of the decent houses are JUST out of our price range…but I have faith that the right one will pop up at the right time. In the meantime, it’s not so bad where we are. 🙂
Chris Plumb
Looks good and sounds good, and knowing the prices of SoCal housing, must be expensioso.
All houses have flaws, it’s learning which flaws you can deal with (or modify) that turn houses into homes. Otherwise, they’re mansions. This sounded like a mansion. Whenever a mansion shows up in my price range, I’m often looking to see if the attic has ghosts, or if the sub-flooring is rotting out. Usually they’re all too good to be true.
Chris Plumb recently posted…Losing a Decade: What Happened to My Life?
Natalie the Singingfool
Uh, yeah, that’s a given in California. That’s why finding a house is so painfully excruciating. I never thought I’d ever own a house – this is all due to the practicality of my husband.
zoe
Househunting is one of the tougher shared events in a relationship. One of us always wanted it when the other was willing to wait. It finally happens though. Hold out!
Natalie the Singingfool
We are. *Sigh*